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Monday, January 07, 2008
A boy meets a girl and desperately wants to ask her out on a date.. he has known her for two long months now and its high time he pulls up his socks and gets to know her feelings too.But he hasn't a least bit of idea of HOW! how should he go about things.
Alot of people have been in situations like this.Wanting to ask out someone special but just don't know how.. sometimes they know the person, sometimes they haven't even seen them! So here's a bit of advice for those who want to ask anyone out on a date!
1)Rid yourself of the fear of rejection.If you fear that you will be rejected by the person you ask out for a date, how will you get through the main base? so just go on and do it! ask that someone special out.. if yes is their answer, your on cloud 9! If no, don't bother.See it as they have lost a opportunity of happiness with you so they really are the one you should feel bad for.If one rejects you, it doesn't mean the next person will! Pick your head up and move on, your date will come true by someone who deserves you!
2)After approaching someone for a date, be specific when asking that person out for a date.For example, you could ask the person the following question: I’m interested in seeing a play at our local theater on either a Wednesday or Thursday would you be interested in attending? This question is able to provide the opportunity for your date to have options on deciding if they want to go on the date with you and if so, they can choose the day they want to go on the date and other options such as meeting you at the theater, etc... always opt for a quiet place where the two of you will get some time to talk.
5)Always have an alternative date and time or location in mind should the person be unsure of their dairy.Giving a person a choice is often pleasing for them.
4)Try asking the person when they are alone and not with their friends, etc.That could create an uncomfortable atmosphere while being around with friends.
3)Asking someone out in person is the best way out.You can get the opportunity to see the person you're about to date face to face.You can also observe their facial expressions and body language!
4) Try to avoid the use alcohol to boost your courage levels as this will often backfire.Nobody would like a stuttering tongue.
With these useful tips in mind, am sure your first dates going to be a success.Be yourself, enjoy the time you have together, and learn from the experience.
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that was a nice tips.... The first thing is to approach her. You have to make your move... What the worst could happen, she would just say "NO"..
Just spending the time together in the first date is great. You get to know more about her.
By the way, can I use these tips on WALIZ.. hehehe...
take care and have a great time.. Always be happy..
don't tell waliz, that I am going to use these tips on her..It's just between you and me [private].. ;)..
Have a wonderful time.. :)
Hey i guess appoaching a girl is scary, right?? You should show these tips to your cousin;)
Hope you have a great time too!:)
i would like to say "nice template huh"
oooops is this a private room hehe
well sorry for reading the comments
dann of mylove hub and waliz of waliz diary are my friends too
hope we can be friends too nisha
well in regards to the post
hmmmmmmm i do ask a girl to go out for a date
but the most important thing to be consider there was "SINCERITY"
"GOOD INTENTION" is the main thing to prioritize right
hmmmm
date is not just for fun for me
it also follow certain responsibilities
have a nice day nisha
well i was just kidding with Dann and waliz.. hehehe.. they're my good friends too:) you are most welcome to be my friend, infact you already are my friend:)
I wish these tips could come in handy for many readers:)
hi, sorry for not leaving my trail for that damn long time. anyway, hey this is some fine art to get a special someone. hahaha. but you see, I have no intention in establishing a serious relationship; not yet. But hey, I'm taking note here(",).
The template looks cool..;) .. By the way what's in the cup..(tea or a coffee)..hehehe.. take care and have a great time ..
if somebody asks me out for a date i will be flaterred! i will definitely go out wth him..first not because of i want to be his gf(not tht fast) but because he has courage to ask me (must be tough for him).. so why not start a relationship..we never know wht lies for us in the future..!
so guys..follow nisha advices...dont waste yr time ok..if she rejects you ..dont bother..there is always be another girl!
thank you so much for creating this lovely post.. I asked waliz for a date. Lets hope that she says YES . . have a great time ..take care .. Be happy..
I received my first award..Yippe.. and I would like to share this award with you..Have a look at it.. My Love Hub
take care and have a great time ;)
A dates a date, esp the first time.. even if you dont intend to, but you never know if your really going to get serious:) haha.. all the best for your first one!
Btw thanks a zillion for the award.. i havent yet seen it but its my first one obviously and will always appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.. So now we're going to have a post on you, after Waliz!
Am really so happy the post was of some help to you! lets keep our fingers crosses for her answer:)i guess she has already answered you! see comments above:)
Hmmm about confidence from the girls side, i dont know.. i think guys should be more confident! It gives the date a lively atmosphere:)
I am honoured to share this award with you. I am soo happy.. I would also like to congrats you for your first award. Keep smiling ..
I am not going to say anything this time. Just an emotion .. :) :) :D :D ;) ;). Happy emotions..have a great time ;)